Look What’s Waiting

December 12, 2015, 5:30 am

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Sometimes when I walk through the door I want to see a strap or tawse lying on the table.  It’s like a statement that simply says your ass is going to get spanked soon.  Maybe even a couple of times.

Or imagine a strap laid out in every room you go into?  That can only mean a lot of spankings.

And then once the strap starts warming up to the task in hand, its not such a good thing.

Wonder what’ll happen the next time I walk through the door?

 

Filed under: Leisure Spanking Tagged: Bitch Strap, Dominator Strap, Glasgow Strap, HOH Strap, Lochgelly Tawse, Mistress Strap, Strap

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Hot Bot Day

December 13, 2015, 9:00 am

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It’s quite frosty and Lady C has offered to keep my bottom warm all day.  As I’m going to be in and out of the house all day it’ll mean that they’ll be quite a few warmings.  And, getting your bottom warmed when it’s cold is very stingy.

A

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A Christmas Gift For Mistress

December 27, 2015, 1:30 pm

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In addition to the vanilla gifts, Lady C was given a spanking gift. Of all the gifts I purchased for her, this one was the first to be wrapped up and placed under the Christmas tree.

It was interesing that it was the first gift that she requested demanded on Christmas morning.  It didn’t take her long to remove it from the packing and was quite delighted when she found it was a dragon cane with a lovely soft, purple lambskin handle.  A couple of test swishes later confirmed that she was pleased with it.

It took until the following day until Lady C used it on me and even then it was five light strokes.  She needs practice she tells me, and I imagine its going to be real practice on my ass and not the cushions that she means.

Anyway hope you all had a lovely Christmas and got presents that you like too.

A

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The Disciplinarian

January 10, 2016, 9:15 am

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Disciplinarian : a person who is very strict about punishing bad behavior : a person who uses discipline as a way of making sure that rules or orders are obeyed.

I want Lady C to be my own personal Disciplinarian.  I need this, I want this.   I want her to help me achieve my goals through a set of goals and rules – my rules, my goals.   When I struggle to meet my goals or even to get started on them that when Lady C has to be the Disciplinarian.

Of course, just having my rules would be selfish.  Lady C needs rules too and I’m quite happy to have her enforce them too.  That’s the basis of consensual Domestic Discipline.

I’ve not decided as this point what my goal and rules are going to be, but as usual they need to be achievable and be measurable.  I see the rules as being very changeable and dynamic.  There’s lots of examples – I need to make a plan today, I don’t want to drink any more than 3 pints of beer on a particular night or I want the kitchen kept to a level of tidyness.

I’m also going to suggest some punishments and encouragements, because after all their my rules.  However, if Lady C wants to use her own or enhance mine, then I have no problem with that.

This is nothing new to us, just a refresh as to our commitment to DD and each other.

Time to go and figure out what I want to achieve with my life this week…

A

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Implement of the Week

January 15, 2016, 10:45 am

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This will be this week’s instrument of punishment. Specially an implement will be chosen every week for My Disciplinarian to punish me. The details of the punishments have still to be worked out, but the implement of the week will be used.

Auntie

There’s a nice hook been recently installed close to our front door which will in our moments of privacy be used to hang said implement upon. It’ll be one of the first things to be seen walking into the house or navigating between lounge and kitchen.
I have selected the following implements to be available: Auntie Strap, HOH Strap, 3H Tawse, 2H Tawse, 2M Tawse, Glasgow Strap, Dominator Strap, Senior Dragon Cane, Loopy Johnny and Boudoir Paddle.
I’ve not decided on the selection process yet. I may choose them myself, Lady C may get to choose, or I may even be open to suggestions from the readers here. The implement will be changed at the same time as we change our bathroom towels, so that should be easy to remember.
The first implement will be the auntie strap, but before it can be put into use I’m going to need to do some thinking about the punishments. Of course, these are my rules for me, and in no way restrict Lady C from doing her own thing in addition to them. I would hate to think that I was overruling her ;-)

Filed under: Discussion, Punishment, Rules Tagged: 3H Tawse, Bitch Strap, Boudoir Paddle, Dominator Strap, Glasgow Strap, Lochgelly Tawse, loopy johhny

Quick Punishments

January 16, 2016, 11:00 am

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So what happens with the Implement of the Week? For quick on the spot punishments it’s conveniently placed where it can be used. The quick punishment will be a minimum of eight strokes with the Implement on the bare bum. If it’s a tawse then it can be used to strap my hands – maximum of two strokes per hand.

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A Nastier Punishment

January 17, 2016, 8:00 am

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Recipe: a brisk warm-up, the main event, and 6 of the best.
The brisk warm up is not quite the nice easy start to make your bum heat gradually and be more receptive to the main event. Think of it more as a nasty spanking to get you quickly to the point where you want it to stop so that every subsequent stroke in the main event will be quite ouch.
The main event could be a strapping, tawsing, caning or paddling. And then just when you think it’s all over, there’s a six of the best still to come. Each stroke to be hard and stingy with Lady C nagging just to make sure the message has got through. The six is just a title and doesn’t actually reflect the number of strokes that will be delivered as every spanking will be tailored to suit the level of punishment required.
So the punishments has mostly been described, it’s time to give some thought about my goals and rules. That’ll be the next post in My Disciplinarian series.
A

Filed under: Punishment, Rules Tagged: paddling, strapping, Tawse

And The First Implement Of The Week

January 26, 2016, 4:40 am

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Is the two tailed heavy Lochgelly tawse.

I must confess I did expect a tease to be picked and if I had to bet it would have been between the HOH Strap and Auntie.

It’s been removed from its place on the hook and at this very minute is waiting to meet my raised naked bum.

Wonder why she chose it?

A

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The implement in action

January 29, 2016, 8:00 am

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2H Tawse

This is this week’s implement of the week. Surprisingly this is where it has been most of the time and not heating my bottom.

It has been taken off it’s hook twice. Once just because Lady C thought she fancied some fun and the other when I hadn’t put some laundry in the machine.

I thought that the spankings would be in the room where we were at the time, but Lady C decided she wanted my bum bare and high in the air on our bed.

The second spanking consisted of only 4 strokes. That’s a lot less than C normally gives, but each was a well delivered hard stroke that caused me to gasp. Damn, she’s getting too good with these straps and tawses. I’m not sure if be able to take much more of them.

As the weekend approaches, it’ll be time to choose a new implement of the week. I wonder what that’ll be or even who’s going to choose.

A

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Auntie Has Been Busy

February 6, 2016, 5:00 am

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This weeks implement of the week is our short tan leather strap, affectionally know to us as Auntie.   Well this week she has been very busy, most of which I can remember what for, but none-the-less busy.   She was extremely busy the night after we went to the pub and I said something to C that caused her to give me the look and had the bar staff running away too.

Tan Leather Strap

The one thing I didn’t get any punishment was the C’s day off when a delivery man came to the door.  C remembered to move the strap to somewhere safe but forgot to move the sign above it.   She doesn’t know if he saw it or not, but she wasn’t happy about it.   The words say “There shall be but one Mistress here and no master” – a quote from Elizabeth Tudor and “A good spanking starts when the recipient wants it to stop” – another of my favourite quotes.   Below the strap is one of these nice signs that your mums, aunts, friends and daughters give you. You know the thing about what make a happy house, recipe for love etc.

What else would make HOH happier than a respectful and obedient partner under the harsh rule of a strap?

Tomorrow will be Auntie’s last day while a new implement is chosen.  I suspect she’s going to have one last trip across my bum as C dishes out some retribution for arriving very late and keeping her waiting.

 

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Things I Like To Hear

February 8, 2016, 10:00 am

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There’s some things as a spanko I just love to hear.   Depending on your status you probably say them too or have heard them.   Generally outwith a spanking scenario they set my pulse racing and send kindle some excitment in my loins.

Probably my favourite is “Just wait ’till I get you home” with “You’re going to suffer for that”.  Others include “I’m going to warm your ass”, “You won’t be able to sit down for a week”, “Go fetch my strap”, “Get your naked ass onto the bed and in the air”, “Higher, nice and taut for the strap”, “You’re really going to get it now”, “I’ve just started, there’s plenty more where that came from”, “Your ass is nice and red”, “All  nice and toasty” and “That’s going to welt”.

For me, they’re all part of the discipline process, without them wouldn’t be the same.   What’s you favourite?

A

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Caning Practice

February 9, 2016, 4:23 am

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I got this nice cane for Lady C’s Christmas present.   She barely used it at all in January, so I offered her my bottom to her to practice so she could become more proficient in its use.

She took me at my word and almost every night bares my ass and does some practice.  As it was to be practice I said I would give her feedback.   The thing that normally reminds her is when she sees the implement of the week hanging up.

The first night was very light taps and I encouraged her to try some trial swishes in the air.  Wow, some of them caused me to wince just looking at them.   She’s steadily got harder and after a half dozen can get me wriggling out of the way of them.  One thing she hasn’t decided on yet is whether to do a full swing with follow through or stop the swing short of my ass and let the momentum and bend of the cane to do the business.   We’re open to suggestions as to the best method or other tips as neither of us have had any experience of the cane outwith our bedroom.   If I had a complaint, it would be that she has a tendency to cane too high up my bottom and when she does strike the lower part it stings so much more.  When she goes really low and catches the crease between ass cheek and thigh she usually apologizes to me – not very Mistress!

She’s not quite managed to get to that next step and cause welts and weals on my ass, but it won’t be long.   This cane is longer and thicker than the previous one and I can feel the difference without much effort on C’s part. Eventually it’ll be able to take it’s place in our collection of punishment implements.

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Ode to Mistress

February 14, 2016, 1:01 pm

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Your eyes are brown and face pretty,

you are , for me, a hottie

and even though I suck at your clitty

you still punish me when I’m naughty

Your aim is true and arms so strong

the implements evil, nasty and long

when you spank my ass with a strap and tawse

I ask why and you say just because

My heart is throbbing, my balls are twitching, I’m in heaven with you and your switching

your cleavage is great and boobs deserve licking

I’m so happy when I’m squeezing and sucking

Upon my finger there is a ring

around my cock is the same thing

these say you’re my Mistress and wife

without you I would hate life

I love all of you, including boobs and bum

even that bit of squidgy tum

you are gorgeous, lovely and so fine, 

that’s why you’re mine and my Valentine.

So Mistress, when we get together

remember you can keep me on a tether

we’ll go out, have food and drink no matter the weather

and then once home you can have fun with your leather

A wrote this for me while away, he will find it prophetic!
Enjoy a spanking good valentines day all!

Lady C

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Mistresses Reply

February 14, 2016, 2:16 pm

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Ode to my Sub

Your eyes are closed and face screwed up

And even though I smack your butt

You always point it up

So your cheeks get nice and hot

My aim is true and stinging

The cane is swinging right

You know what it is bringing

Welts deep and bright

I’m feeling wet

Your ass is pink

A treat you want to get

I want some tongue, I think

Not for you the end is nigh

You really must be patient

Until you make me sigh

You’ll stay in diktation!

This will also prove to be prophetic! I do demand a lot of attention to my pussy! And its always best when A is locked in a chastity device

C

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Grrrrr

February 17, 2016, 12:00 pm

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That’s my standard bratty reply to Lady C.  I use it when I want to rebel and say no, but actually want her to up the ante.

Deep down it means acceptance but not too the point of total obedience. What would be the fun in that?

Meanwhile a big thank you to Lady C for posting my Ode To Mistress Valentine when I had no access to WordPress xx

A

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More Things I Like

February 18, 2016, 12:00 pm

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A few weeks ago I talked about things I like to hear during a spanking. This post is about the non speech things.

Having Mistress remove the last layer of clothing is good. Feeling hands slipped into each side of your waistband and pull down says she means business.

Being tapped on the bum or hips by the cane to adjust the position is always necessary.

Seeing an implement selected and out ready for use gets the heart beating.

Pointing at the bed, chair or wherever the spanking is to take place.

Sometimes seeing Mistress clothed normally for a punishment. For fun, a pair of stiletto heels is a must.

Mistress must give the air of authority and give the impression that the spanking is effortless to her and there’s plenty in reserve. There must be an air of simplistic elegance and totally relaxation.

Playing with the implement. Canes and crops should be flexed and given trial swishes. Tawses and straps should be held in both ends and flexed or held around Mistresses own ass, or around the neck. Paddles can be slapped against the other hand and tapped against any hard surface.

The hand on the small of the back that says you ain’t getting up yet.

I’m sure there’s more, but that all I can think of at this point. Do you have any?

A

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Get Over It

March 19, 2016, 7:00 am

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There’s a couple of phrases that Lady C doesn’t like me saying:  “Get over it” and “Whatever”.  Now being the cheeky chap that I am that just means I try and say them even more ;-)  Sometimes I say them before I realise I’ve done it.

I pointed out to C that she says them too – yeah whatever was her response.  I’m allowed to say them she says, not you.  Sometimes they come out like this: “My knee, get over it”, “That bed, get over it”.

A

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Recipe For Love

April 1, 2016, 10:00 am

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A picture tells a thousand words. 

This is where the implement of the week should hang. Lady C is becoming very complacent.

A

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His and Hers

April 10, 2016, 8:00 am

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I’ve made a few of these drip mats, these ones are currently on our dining room table.  And yes, that’s exactly what occurs.

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Spanking Bench

April 11, 2016, 10:30 am

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For a while now I’ve wanted a spanking bench.  Something that will be used only for spankings, so if it is out then you kinda know whats coming next.  The main reasons for wanting is that I tend to wriggle out of the way and Lady C takes that as a sign that I want it to stop – well I do cause its starting to hury, but I also want her to carry on regardless.  With a properly design spanking bench I would not be able to wriggle out of the ways and my bum would still be awaiting more punishment.

Some of the more important criterion that the bench should have are that it needs to be lightweight, easy to carry and assemble, yet small enough to not take a lot of space when stored in a cupboard or under the bed.   It should present the buttocks nicely taughtened and provide support for the body, legs and arms with suitable restraints to keep everything in place and out of the way.  It should also be comfortable, and nicely padded so that it doesn’t cause the occupant any uneccessary pain allowing both an extended spanking on the bench and to focus entirely on the pain being inflicted on their bum.

I also thought it could have hooks for hanging the implements on and maybe even a small board for keeping a tally.  Other enhancements could be a timer or this gadget that I made.

Any of the designs I’ve seen on the web are all very expensive and it looks like it’ll need to be a home build.  Ideally it would be made out of metal, either tubes or rectangular hollow section, but I don’t have many metal working tools and not access to a welding machine, so its probably going to be made out of wood.  Easier to work with and nice and warm to the touch approaching something of a bit of furniture.

If anyone knows of plans, then I would appreciate a copy or pointed in the right direction, otherwise my busy schedule will get even busier by getting my drawing board and pencils out.   I did find this site which should be useful to anyone trying similiar projects.

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